How to avoid Negative people in life?

#1. Never Get Into An Argument

The thing about negative people is that most times they are stubborn as well, and every discussion with them turns into an argument within seconds. No matter what you say, they will have an opposite opinion and points to back their argument up. The only way a debate with them could end is with either you losing the discussion or your temper. Arguments are also a way of strengthening social bonds, and you do not want that to be happening between you and the negative person. Getting into an argument with them would spiral down things further and you will find yourself enveloped in frustration and negativity. Therefore, if you want joy and laughter in your life, try to avoid an argument with negative people as much as you can.

#2. Hang Out Only In Groups

There could be times when you cannot eliminate the negative person from your life, like in the case when he or she is your classmate or colleague. At the same time, you cannot afford to offend that person with a rude remark or by walking away as that would make things even worse between the two of you. In that case, we suggest you avoid spending alone time with them as much as possible. In a group, negative people respond and act in a different way than they otherwise do.

#3. Take Charge Of The Conversation

Some people can’t help being negative talking about certain topics as these spark complaints and self-pity in them. So, in order to avoid their negative comments, try to steer clear of those topics while engaging in a conversation. Always find a lighter ground when you can’t avoid talking to them. Bring up general topics like the weather or any latest movie you or they might have seen. In the process, also try to keep compassion for yourself. There could also be times when you find the conversation plummeting into negativity. If possible, try to turn things around as much as you can. As the in-charge of the conversation, you can also choose to ignore a negative comment by the other person and drive the dialogue into neutral or positive fields.

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