Should you Share Everything with your True Friends?

In this world every one has a friend that helps him in every field of work. our friendis a great adviser to us. We can tell him about our problems and may get a proper solution.Friend is a very useful person to us. He is the most reliable person on whom we can trust and share our secrets.
Trust factor is the most important aspect in any relationship. In friendship, we trust our close friends, feel free to show the self and say whatever we are thinking/planing without any worry that things will get misconstrued or misunderstood. But, every relationship has to meet some limits and that too for its own good - to keep the relationship safe. So, giving proper amount of respect to all in a relationship is important too. Sharing secrets with friends is not bad. Infect, by sharing something with them, we feel really good and relieved. We do it because we absolutely trust them.
The mark of a true friend is not hard to recognize. Your true friend is one who can guard a friend's secret safely. So, share harmful secrets with your close friends. But, keep gossiping secrets among friends at bay. At the same time, certain things are not to be shared with just anyone. Those subjects like a secret dark past (which are better to be forgotten), current emotional clashes in family, financial problems/struggle in business/job, sharing confidential information or life's significant decisions in initial stages etc. are better to keep to self. Selection of true and honest friends and then respecting boundaries while maintaining it (sharing secrets is a part of it) are crucial for a happy and peaceful life.
If you trust your friend more than anything, you can share everything with him/her because friends always helps each other in any situation.
It also depends on your friend that if he/she is greedy, selfish etc, they will not help you at many situations of your life.
Also their is the effect of the time that since how much time you are friends with him/her. If you have recently become friend then it is necessary to judge him/her that whether he/she is trustworthy or not and then decide whether to share every secrets with your friend or not.
A friend is a family member whom you have selected to be with you. True friendship is based on trust, understanding, love, care, honesty, etc. If you completely trust your friend and share a great understanding with him/her, then, you can always share all your secrets with him/her. A true friend will always listen to you and keep your secrets. So, there is no problem in one sharing his/her secrets with his/her friend. The most important thing is to share your secrets only with your best friends whom you know for a long time and can trust them completely.

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