SIGNS OF HAVING INFERIORITY COMPLEX

Posted by Unknown October 22, 2017

SIGNS OF HAVING INFERIORITY COMPLEX

TOP SIGNS THAT YOU HAVE INFERIORITY COMPLEX

FAULT FINDER — Since you don’t really feel good about yourself, you also have difficulty feeling good about others. You really find ways to enumerate their imperfections. You look for ways on how you can make these people not feel good about themselves too. That’s what we call crab mentality-we pull them down with us. These are the people that will never feel confident and superior unless the competition is away. You have the tendency to blame others to cover up for your shortcoming. If your friend is having an ultimate time with her boyfriend, and you don’t have any, you will discourage your friend by saying things that might make her break up with him…so you’ll have someone who will be as miserable as you are.
DESTRUCTIVE CRITICISM — These people know their flaws or shortcomings and yet, whenever they are being given an opionion they take it seriously and that will make them feel worse. Since they have extremely low self esteem, they feel like they didn’t do well but if you point that out, well, that will be the day!
TENDS TO BE TIMID ON A CROWD — Those people who feels inferior has the tendency to create a hermit out of themselves, avoiding social gatherings and meetings. They would rather be alone in their own world than having the world know their flaws. They feel that they aren’t as smart and as interesting like others. It will really be hard to have this kind of person to speak up, because he feels that he will just make himself a laughingstock out of himself, afraid that he’ll say something embarrassing or senseless. These are the ones who avoid debates, forum,etc.
FLATTER ME! — You want to always hear others complimenting how you look, how you did on that article, what you did great or what have you. Because you are so desperate, there are some instances that if nobody praises you, you’ll start telling people what you did so you’d get nice compliments. Or you will start asking people, “Do you think I did great?”, “Do I look good tonight?” …so you’d get complimented. (What if the person you asked said otherwise? Well…that wil make your self esteem way way low)
DON’T FLATTER ME! — You don’t want to hear any compliment, even you really did well. For you, that’s just a way to make you feel a bit better, you feel like the comment isn’t really coming from the heart. You refuse to listen to positive comments since you know inside your heart that you are not good enough.
UNHEALTHY COMPETITION — You really don’t love competing with others but if you do, you’ll find all ways on how you can outdo your competition. Because if you loose, then you’ll feel that you aren’t that good enough and you will instill in your mind not compete with anyone for you will never win at all. You envy those who are always on top of everything and you feel you will never be like that even in your wildest dreams.

So, do have inferiority complex? Do the signs fit your personality? Well, do not worry, like what I’ve said, it could be just a passing phase. You can always outsmart your feelings. There will come a time that you will realize how these signs can make you a better person…