Signs That You Might Be A Side- Chick

Posted by Unknown October 20, 2017

Signs That You Might Be A Side- Chick

Side chick:
A position allocated to a girl which is neither a wifey or a girlfriend but a side dish like nandos rice.
Girls you have sex with on and off whilst you're looking for the one you want to go out with. #bootycall.

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What are the qualities of a side- chick, you’d ask? But a side-chick isn’t always born (just sometimes..) and there are times when you happen to turn into a side-chick. This might be due to some bad past experience in a relationship or due to the media hype. Most of the times, they are a nuisance to the society and if you identify a promiscuous creature like this in your life, steer clear! Side-chicks fall under the ultimate sadist category and only believe in feeding their own ego and selfish needs. Their most common weapon being sex, they tend to make the first move and seduce the guy, so as to engage in an activity that he might regret in the future.

If you can relate to this information and are a lady, you will perhaps know what we're saying. But is this something that you should be proud of? Obviously, not. The aftermath doesn’t bother, and you simply don’t care about other people's feelings. It’s not the fact that they are dead inside, but the fact that they attain some kind of selfish pleasure in making other people’s lives a mess, playing with their feelings and not caring by the end of it all! A side-chick is just a female version of a fuckboy to categorize it in the simplest of words. There might also be a possibility that you are treated or forced to act as a side-chick due to the situation or basically, involuntarily without even knowing it. When a guy is already into a relationship or married and engages in any kind of sexual or emotional activity with another woman, that ‘other’ woman is the ‘side-chick’.

Just like a little devil, they will make efforts to know about a man’s personal life and dwell on it to create strategies as to how to ruin it in order to feed their own selfish needs. Some women tend to chase committed men just to challenge themselves or to see if they can actually grab something out of reach or has karma already closed its doors. They take it as a challenge and chase it until achieved or until they wreck their lives. She is a little predator that is dangerous and must beware of and avoided at all costs. Do not fall for that pretty face, all you committed boys!

They are not just famous for wreaking havoc in people’s lives, but there are reasons as to why they do it. For one, they like the silent private creatures of the night and loyalty means nothing to them. They may even blackmail you after all is done and said for money! And yes, I’ve read and seen cases. This act is commonly more than being true. A side-chick is just a bummed out word for what the previous generation used to call a ‘mistress’. She engages in sexual activity with more than one sexual partners at the same period of time, strictly avoiding any kind of emotional feelings.

But most often, the side-chick is unaware of her position. She might be treated as a side-chick by the guy without her prior knowledge into the relationship. The next time you date someone, try to figure out or better, make sure the guy is single as a pringle or if he is just admitting to being one. Because if he lies, even before you know it, you are his side-chick, backup or the other woman in his life. Some men just don’t believe in the theory of monogamy, and same go for the ladies as well. And what follows next is the creation of a batter of a nuisance that affects us all!

Side-chicks are not heartless or dead inside. They will take out time and make efforts for you to fall into their pit. Just because they go out for lunch and drinks with you doesn’t necessarily mean she might be going out just with you. She will message you every other day knowing you already have a girlfriend and lets you engage in conversations that she knows the guy might not want to avoid. Maybe it’s a football match or maybe it’s just sexual, but they are trick monsters, often possessing experience in the matter! If she tells you she likes you but you still thinks that she does not have all the ears for you when you talk to her or that she doesn’t remember any important event that might be precious to you, maybe she is not the serious kind and just craves for the warmth of affection that you tend to gain in a relationship. People date because they like each other and have genuine feelings for each other but what if she fakes it just to make you believe that she loves you? This might be a secret but nothing like something that doesn’t exist. Maybe she has told this to a couple of guys and fails to show you her phone in the name of trust.

Some other important factors to take note of might be if you have met her on Tinder or any other other social dating site, then there might be a high chance that she is smart enough to know that it's the best option for engaging in promiscuity and she uses it to the fullest to fulfill this purpose. If you really like this girl and still have doubts about her loyalty, make sure you dig into the minute details like how much time she spends on her phone or the fact that she has just recently ended or come out of a relationship. She might even use you as a scapegoat for a rebound.

Sometimes girls already know the status of a guy and are okay with it or will be okay with being the other half. We are not saying that they lack in self-respect (or maybe a little) but attempting to wreak havoc in somebody else’s relationship or for their own selfish needs, a side- chick is not always unaware of her status and she is always happy to see other's in pain. But for women with self-respect and who happen to find themselves in a situation relating to a similar ideology of thought and lots of doubt, here comes the newsflash.