How to cope with Being Single & Lonely?

Being single and lonely is totally okay but some of us end up in a state of discomfort, loneliness, and tension. Frankly speaking, singlehood is the best and beautiful stage of life. We must enjoy ourselves instead of being sad and cursing our fate. If you are single and really excited to mingle, pause- you need to hold your horses. Loneliness is a state of mind that can cause depression, and it can be fatal. Sometimes it is really difficult to go through life without anyone else by your side but one should not ignore perks that come with being single and lonely.


How To Deal With Being Single And Lonely?

If you are the one who feels lonely because you are single, you are dragging yourself in the morass of permanent grief. Given below are some of the pointers with the help of which you can dealing with being single and lonely:
#1. Spend Time With Family
It is better to give your time to the family when you are alone. When you are lonely, you get haunted by a number of thoughts which can be really harmful to your mental sense of being. Sometimes it leads to physical consequences as well. So reserve some of your time for your family. 


#2. Go Out With Friends
When you are under home arrest, you are limited to that particular environment. Your thoughts keep on revolving around one thing. If you hang out with friends, paint the town red; you can atrophy the intensity of loneliness you feel.

#3. Have Me-Time
It is very important to spend time with your own self. Learn to enjoy your own company. Know your inner self, introspect and look life from a new lens. Move out all alone to a market, pamper yourself and spend some money. Try to be happy and cheerful. 
#4. Write A Diary
Record all your days and the events in your diary. Jot down the things that make you happy and sad. Try to ditch things in your life that dampen your spirits. Maintaining a diary and regularly expressing yourself is a release of your emotions. It is a cathartic feeling. This is how you communicate to yourself. It can be really precious to you if you develop this habit.


#5. Incorporate Good Habits
Start a new hobby like painting, yoga classes, or anything for that matter. When you learn something new, you like to improve it and excel at it. So try your hand at novel things, do something creative and constructive.For instance, you can start reading.

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